Here are some suggestions on how you can help
Offer an ear
Ask questions and listen to the answers. If you haven’t suffered from depression, it can be difficult to understand what it’s like, so go easy on the advice.
Gently suggest getting a doctor’s help
If your loved one isn’t getting help from either a medical doctor or a therapist, gently suggest that he or she seek help. The first step is to see a primary care physician.
Form a community
Rally other friends or family members to help support the person with depression. It’s hard to take it all on your own shoulders.
Learn about your loved one’s treatment plan
If you’re involved in the person’s care, make sure you know what the treatment plan is. If possible, have the person give permission to his or her doctor to communicate with you.